Different ways people do to enjoy New Year's Eve. Enjoy the excitement and joy of the new year with loved ones including one with your partner.
If you and your spouse have no more time, lazy to travel and do not like crowds. Rumahpun could be the place most convenient for you both to celebrate New Year's Eve in a romantic atmosphere.
Here are some tips that hopefully can help you miss the moment the turn of the year in the unique atmosphere of romantic nan:
The first is to start by creating a mood and warm atmosphere which certainly belong only to you both.
Second, prepare a special menu and special, if not have time to cook in particular, you can order your favorite restaurant menus in both.
Third, equally important is to prepare an attractive appearance, it could be a little sexy.
Fourth, as an alternative entertainment to prepare favorite DVD movies and also a CD of your favorite songs together.
Skipping a romantic dinner, waiting for the seconds turn of the year by watching a favorite movie or listen to favorite songs while dancing together for example, and spent the night just to be alone with your partner, it will surely become the greatest things and more and strengthen your relationship together.
Do not forget to make a wonderful resolution for your marriage together. Mutual promise to love and cherish, respect, increasing our gratitude and thanks to the couple and of course completely committed to each other for a happy marriage.
Senin, 27 Desember 2010
LOW SELF-ESTEEM
1. DefinitionLow self-esteem is a personal assessment of the results achieved by analyzing how far behavior satisfy the ideal self (Stuart and Sundeen, 1998: 227). According to Townsend (1998:189) low self-esteem is a self-evaluation of feelings about themselves or negative self-ability, either directly or indirectly. The same opinion dikemukan by Carpenito, LJ (1998:352) that low self-esteem is a condition in which individuals experience negative self evaluations about the self or the ability of self. From the opinions of the above can be made a conclusion, low self-esteem is a negative sense of self, loss of confidence, and failed to achieve the goals expressed directly or indirectly, decreased self-esteem can be situational or chronic or chronic.
2. Signs and symptomsAccording to Carpenito, LJ (1998: 352); Keliat, BA (1994:20); behavior associated with low self-esteem, among others:
Subjective Data:a. Criticize yourself or othersb. The feeling itself is very important that exaggeratedc. Feelings of inadequacyd. Guilte. Negative attitude to yourselff. Pessimistic attitude to lifeg. Complaints of physical painh. Polarized view of lifei. Refusal skills yourselfj. Reduction self / self mockingk. Feelings of anxiety and fearl. Rationalize rejection / away from the positive feedbackm. Disclose personal failuren. The inability to set goals
Objective data:a. Productivity declineb. Self-destructive behaviorc. Destructive behavior on othersd. Substance abusee. Withdraw from social relationshipsf. Facial expressions of shame and guiltg. Showing signs of depression (difficulty sleeping and eating difficult)h. Looks touchy / easily angered
3. CauseLow self-esteem is often caused by the ineffective individual coping due to the lack of positive feedback, lack of support system, setbacks ego development, a negative feedback loop, dysfunctional family systems and fixed at early developmental stages (Townsend, MC, 1998: 366 .) According to Carpenito, LJ (1998: 82) ineffective individual coping is a situation where an individual experiencing or at risk of an inability to handle internal or environmental stressors with adequate because ketidakadekuatan resources (physical, psychological, behavioral or cognitive). Meanwhile, according to Townsend, MC (1998: 312) ineffective individual coping is an adaptive behavioral disorders and problem-solving skills in meeting the guidance of a person's life and role.
From the opinions of the above conclusions can be made, individuals who have ineffective individual coping would demonstrate the inability to adapt or not to solve the problem of tututan life and the role that they face. The existence of ineffective individual coping often indicated by behavioral (Carpenito, LJ, 1998:83; Townsend, MC, 1998:313) as follows:
Subjective Data:a. Expressing inability to solve the problem or request assistanceb. Expressing feelings of worry and anxiety are prolongedc. Reveals the inability to run role
Objective Data:a. Changes in community participationb. Increased dependencec. Manipulate everyone around them to meet the objectives of their own desiresd. Refusing to follow the rules that applye. Destructive behaviors directed at oneself and others:f. Manipulating verbal / changes in communication patternsg. Inability to meet basic needsh. Drug abuse
4. Result
Low self-esteem can be at risk of social isolation: withdrawal, social isolation withdraw is an inflexible personality disorder on behavior maladaptif, disrupt the function of a person in social relations (MOH RI, 1998:336). Social isolation is often shown with withdraw behaviors include:
Subjective Dataa. Reveal reluctant to start a relationship / conversationb. Expressing feelings of shame to relate to othersc. Expressing concern about the refusal by another person
Objective Dataa. Less spontaneous when spoken tob. Apatheticc. Blank facial expressiond. Decreased / absence of verbal communicatione. Speak softly and no eye contact when speaking
C. The data that needs to be studied in the diagnosis of social isolation: withdraw• Express reluctant to talk with other people• Klein said the shy to meet and deal with others• Damaging yourself• Tampering with other people• Expression of shame• Withdraw from social relations• Looks irritable• Do not want to eat and no sleep• Looks dependence on others• Appears sad and tida conducting activities that should be done• The face looked glum• blank facial expression,• No eye contact when spoken to• The voice slowly and it is not clear• Only a short memberijawaban (yes / no)• Avoidance when approachedE. Nursing Diagnosis1. Low self-esteem disturbance
F. INTERVENTION FOCUS
PatientsSP 11. Identify the capabilities and the positive aspects of patient-owned2. Helping patients to assess the ability of patients who still used3. Helping patients choose the activities that will be trained in accordance with the patient's ability4. Coaching patients selected according to ability5. Provide a reasonable compliment to the success of the patient6. Encourage patients to enter in the daily activity schedule
SP 21. Evaluating the patient's daily activity schedule2. Train the second ability3. Encourage patients to enter in the daily activity schedule
FamilySP 11. discuss the perceived problems of families in caring for patients2. explain the meaning, signs and symptoms of low self-esteem experienced by patients with the occurrence of3. explains how - how to care for patients with low self-esteem
SP 21. train family practice how to care for patients with low self esteem2. train the family to do directly to the patient how to care for low self-esteem
SP 31. Helping families make the scheduled events, including taking medication at home (discharge planning)2. describe follow-up of patients after return
2. Signs and symptomsAccording to Carpenito, LJ (1998: 352); Keliat, BA (1994:20); behavior associated with low self-esteem, among others:
Subjective Data:a. Criticize yourself or othersb. The feeling itself is very important that exaggeratedc. Feelings of inadequacyd. Guilte. Negative attitude to yourselff. Pessimistic attitude to lifeg. Complaints of physical painh. Polarized view of lifei. Refusal skills yourselfj. Reduction self / self mockingk. Feelings of anxiety and fearl. Rationalize rejection / away from the positive feedbackm. Disclose personal failuren. The inability to set goals
Objective data:a. Productivity declineb. Self-destructive behaviorc. Destructive behavior on othersd. Substance abusee. Withdraw from social relationshipsf. Facial expressions of shame and guiltg. Showing signs of depression (difficulty sleeping and eating difficult)h. Looks touchy / easily angered
3. CauseLow self-esteem is often caused by the ineffective individual coping due to the lack of positive feedback, lack of support system, setbacks ego development, a negative feedback loop, dysfunctional family systems and fixed at early developmental stages (Townsend, MC, 1998: 366 .) According to Carpenito, LJ (1998: 82) ineffective individual coping is a situation where an individual experiencing or at risk of an inability to handle internal or environmental stressors with adequate because ketidakadekuatan resources (physical, psychological, behavioral or cognitive). Meanwhile, according to Townsend, MC (1998: 312) ineffective individual coping is an adaptive behavioral disorders and problem-solving skills in meeting the guidance of a person's life and role.
From the opinions of the above conclusions can be made, individuals who have ineffective individual coping would demonstrate the inability to adapt or not to solve the problem of tututan life and the role that they face. The existence of ineffective individual coping often indicated by behavioral (Carpenito, LJ, 1998:83; Townsend, MC, 1998:313) as follows:
Subjective Data:a. Expressing inability to solve the problem or request assistanceb. Expressing feelings of worry and anxiety are prolongedc. Reveals the inability to run role
Objective Data:a. Changes in community participationb. Increased dependencec. Manipulate everyone around them to meet the objectives of their own desiresd. Refusing to follow the rules that applye. Destructive behaviors directed at oneself and others:f. Manipulating verbal / changes in communication patternsg. Inability to meet basic needsh. Drug abuse
4. Result
Low self-esteem can be at risk of social isolation: withdrawal, social isolation withdraw is an inflexible personality disorder on behavior maladaptif, disrupt the function of a person in social relations (MOH RI, 1998:336). Social isolation is often shown with withdraw behaviors include:
Subjective Dataa. Reveal reluctant to start a relationship / conversationb. Expressing feelings of shame to relate to othersc. Expressing concern about the refusal by another person
Objective Dataa. Less spontaneous when spoken tob. Apatheticc. Blank facial expressiond. Decreased / absence of verbal communicatione. Speak softly and no eye contact when speaking
C. The data that needs to be studied in the diagnosis of social isolation: withdraw• Express reluctant to talk with other people• Klein said the shy to meet and deal with others• Damaging yourself• Tampering with other people• Expression of shame• Withdraw from social relations• Looks irritable• Do not want to eat and no sleep• Looks dependence on others• Appears sad and tida conducting activities that should be done• The face looked glum• blank facial expression,• No eye contact when spoken to• The voice slowly and it is not clear• Only a short memberijawaban (yes / no)• Avoidance when approachedE. Nursing Diagnosis1. Low self-esteem disturbance
F. INTERVENTION FOCUS
PatientsSP 11. Identify the capabilities and the positive aspects of patient-owned2. Helping patients to assess the ability of patients who still used3. Helping patients choose the activities that will be trained in accordance with the patient's ability4. Coaching patients selected according to ability5. Provide a reasonable compliment to the success of the patient6. Encourage patients to enter in the daily activity schedule
SP 21. Evaluating the patient's daily activity schedule2. Train the second ability3. Encourage patients to enter in the daily activity schedule
FamilySP 11. discuss the perceived problems of families in caring for patients2. explain the meaning, signs and symptoms of low self-esteem experienced by patients with the occurrence of3. explains how - how to care for patients with low self-esteem
SP 21. train family practice how to care for patients with low self esteem2. train the family to do directly to the patient how to care for low self-esteem
SP 31. Helping families make the scheduled events, including taking medication at home (discharge planning)2. describe follow-up of patients after return
Minggu, 26 Desember 2010
The Future of Children In the "Mindset" of Parents
The attitude of a person's life is strongly influenced by the principle of life that dianutnya
Still embedded in my mind a belief that is so great that my mother ever raised by four decades ago. A belief that positive energy waging against himself, he is then I record in my subconscious mind as one of the most precious heritage as well as knowledge of school life. One advice that contain meaning and a deep conviction that he had to tell us more or less read: Anyway you all have to keep school. Although your parents who do not have, but Allah is Rich, so I'm sure you all can go to school. I do not want my children to live miserable.Of course he is accusing me of over confidence is not simply driven by a commitment without foundation. There is a kind of positive emotion that burns inside her determination. Determination that accumulate in the mind of super (super mind) through a process of fusion between some elements of interest, such as a sense of affection to the child, feeling like happy children, and desire for her children to live successfully. The elements of interest are then reacted with spiritual values that summed up in a conviction.Confidence is a state of mind can be stimulated or created by the continuous affirmation of orders to seep into the subconscious mind. Confidence is a state of mind that can be developed according to our will, by way of repetition command to the subconscious mind with all feeling positive emotions, so that the subconscious mind will accept it and be used as a basis for action to make it a reality.Confidence will give life, strength, and action to the impulse of our thinking. Confidence will give you the power to transform ordinary vibration of thought, of the human mind which is too limited to be a spiritual counterpart who is without limits.Spiritual thoughts without limits arise when the dominance of the voice of God is inherent in one's heart. The results generated from the voice of God through the practice of meditation-practice related to self-process approach to Him. The process that leads to self-effort approach to God is what will shape a person's beliefs. In turn, these beliefs will run synergistic with the principle of life.Me illustrate examples of beliefs and principles above my mother's life is one of the many life principles and beliefs held by people in general including probably yourself.There is one side that is very important you sikapi in principle to uphold the vision of living your life based on principles of righteousness. With spiritual intelligence (spiritual quotient) that you have, you should be able to determine the life principle in accordance with human nature, that nature of truth, which is fully supported by the nature of God who can bring themselves and their families toward the ultimate happiness, and to provide benefits to people other. The principle of this kind of life should be footing the basis for determining policy in determining the attitude of life.The principle of life that comes from something that is not nature will generally ended in failure, either outwardly or failure batiniyah failure. The world has proved that the principle of life that are contrary to conscience, proved only lead to misery or even collapse. Especially in today's modern era. The power of vision of life, the principle of life, and attitudes that are based on spiritual values should be completely adhered to in order to achieve long-term life goals.Directing the future of children is one form of long-term goals. How to shape the future of children in the future is strongly influenced by the vision, principles and attitudes of their parents. Parents must be keen in setting up the child's future. Avoid the ways that adults are often plagued the lives of modern humans is the tendency of human interest in all things instant. Want to get rich quickly, wanting to gain popularity quickly, came to power with easy and fast, and so forth.If this concept is introduced and shown to the child in an attempt to reach the future, it will result in the formation of a fragile person. They will live without is driven by the great vision of life oriented to the spiritual values of life that far ahead. They would like vast seas, but do not know where the boat should be directed. They will not have the power or powerless in the work and do not have a high morale in the attempt.The phenomenon of the above of course in time will become a reality that we do not expect. All parents are certainly longed for her children grow into a formidable man, pious / sholehah, have the principles of truth that is strong, and the success of the world hereafter. The road to the future or the ideals of children are wide open. Although often hampered by a wall so strong, but with confidence and move these walls must be able to pass us.
Still embedded in my mind a belief that is so great that my mother ever raised by four decades ago. A belief that positive energy waging against himself, he is then I record in my subconscious mind as one of the most precious heritage as well as knowledge of school life. One advice that contain meaning and a deep conviction that he had to tell us more or less read: Anyway you all have to keep school. Although your parents who do not have, but Allah is Rich, so I'm sure you all can go to school. I do not want my children to live miserable.Of course he is accusing me of over confidence is not simply driven by a commitment without foundation. There is a kind of positive emotion that burns inside her determination. Determination that accumulate in the mind of super (super mind) through a process of fusion between some elements of interest, such as a sense of affection to the child, feeling like happy children, and desire for her children to live successfully. The elements of interest are then reacted with spiritual values that summed up in a conviction.Confidence is a state of mind can be stimulated or created by the continuous affirmation of orders to seep into the subconscious mind. Confidence is a state of mind that can be developed according to our will, by way of repetition command to the subconscious mind with all feeling positive emotions, so that the subconscious mind will accept it and be used as a basis for action to make it a reality.Confidence will give life, strength, and action to the impulse of our thinking. Confidence will give you the power to transform ordinary vibration of thought, of the human mind which is too limited to be a spiritual counterpart who is without limits.Spiritual thoughts without limits arise when the dominance of the voice of God is inherent in one's heart. The results generated from the voice of God through the practice of meditation-practice related to self-process approach to Him. The process that leads to self-effort approach to God is what will shape a person's beliefs. In turn, these beliefs will run synergistic with the principle of life.Me illustrate examples of beliefs and principles above my mother's life is one of the many life principles and beliefs held by people in general including probably yourself.There is one side that is very important you sikapi in principle to uphold the vision of living your life based on principles of righteousness. With spiritual intelligence (spiritual quotient) that you have, you should be able to determine the life principle in accordance with human nature, that nature of truth, which is fully supported by the nature of God who can bring themselves and their families toward the ultimate happiness, and to provide benefits to people other. The principle of this kind of life should be footing the basis for determining policy in determining the attitude of life.The principle of life that comes from something that is not nature will generally ended in failure, either outwardly or failure batiniyah failure. The world has proved that the principle of life that are contrary to conscience, proved only lead to misery or even collapse. Especially in today's modern era. The power of vision of life, the principle of life, and attitudes that are based on spiritual values should be completely adhered to in order to achieve long-term life goals.Directing the future of children is one form of long-term goals. How to shape the future of children in the future is strongly influenced by the vision, principles and attitudes of their parents. Parents must be keen in setting up the child's future. Avoid the ways that adults are often plagued the lives of modern humans is the tendency of human interest in all things instant. Want to get rich quickly, wanting to gain popularity quickly, came to power with easy and fast, and so forth.If this concept is introduced and shown to the child in an attempt to reach the future, it will result in the formation of a fragile person. They will live without is driven by the great vision of life oriented to the spiritual values of life that far ahead. They would like vast seas, but do not know where the boat should be directed. They will not have the power or powerless in the work and do not have a high morale in the attempt.The phenomenon of the above of course in time will become a reality that we do not expect. All parents are certainly longed for her children grow into a formidable man, pious / sholehah, have the principles of truth that is strong, and the success of the world hereafter. The road to the future or the ideals of children are wide open. Although often hampered by a wall so strong, but with confidence and move these walls must be able to pass us.
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